Well I did not know whatt was going on…but everyone else did…and no one told me Alex was an asshole…completely. My illegitimate son didn't ask for this situation either, even though he has 2 parents and 6 older brothers and sisters that love him very much. I dont know whether im more hurt over the fact that a baby is involved or the fact that he cheated. I have to recover and it is such a slow process. Yes, the whole situation is as much his fault as it is yours.
I don't want to be bitter, but after the affair I just don't feel the same. No matter how many excuses you make, you are still a cheater and a liar. I feel anger, betrayed, worthless and I cried all night. So any solution, at this point, is going to be a temporary one. I too tried to stop my divorce because I loved her so much, was in denial about our relationship and did everything possible and succeeded too to change her mind and stay. What hurts, though, is my family's response. It was shocking to tell you the truth.
You have not won in this situation. Incidentally, Cynthia's situation was posted several years ago; let's hope that it's been resolved by now. Things are normal at home and my wife can just carry on like nothing happened. It moved into a full blown affair. I am a deeply emotional woman, so I am asking for help with the healing side.
I wish him well often and I can say I am now at peace. Had it not been for the political climate, he would clearly have continued to see, and take care of, both women. Therefore, you are the wicked witch who needs to be cast out to protect her child and her love for this man which is trumps everything including your wedding plans. And that it would deprive him from being involved with his children's life. For 17 years he cheated on me with someone he was having an affair with. Out of all the questions you could have answered that were really good and directly related to your situation, you decided to harp on people calling you names and me stating who I decided to address first? She probably will as soon as she gets rid of you! He loves me and wants to be with me.
But i constantly fight back and forth with myself because i am afraid he will do it again. Who knows if it's his? The sooner you accept that the better. However, when Romanewque found herself pregnant, she also got the news from the doctor that she has chlamydia. She's become so much more mellow, less perfect-mom and more good-wife. Or did they go behind their spouses backs for rendezvous? So if you leave a rough marriage for a happy one, how long do you need to be in the new relationship before people say it might have been worth it.
Funny, when you do that guess what happens? But he already has a family. I'm trying to find the silver lining in all of this, and would help hearing from someone else's experience. No one should have to deal with that in a relationship, married or not. One day I wake up I'm happy next day I want a kill him. If you're too dense to see it for what it is, just ask yourself two questions and be honest about the answers; is this good in the eyes of The Lord and how would you feel if you were you're wife. How do you keep him away from younger women? I mean he hasn't forced anything and we haven't had sex or anything.
I thought he had depression but I have found out today that he has had an affair and is expecting a baby with her. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I have commited to sticking by him. I deal with the consequences of my actions now. Despite the hurtful things that have been written about me here, I fail to see how divorcing my wife to be with my girlfriend would benefit anyone.
My husband is a good person who has made a horrible mistake. Part of me wants to stay and part of me wants to go. I am so sorry to read your message. I regret losing 3 years of my life to this mess. If the woman is asking him to give up his rights, then your husband can probably do so.